Suppose you had a rake with a broken handle and worn claws.
You also had a shovel with worn and twisted blade.
And you kept trying to work your yard with those.
You need knew tools and new experiences.
Let go of the past mistakes. Quit trying to use or redo them.
“And no one puts new wine into old wine skins. . . .” [Mk 2:22, NKJV].